Category: Understanding Affairs
Falling for Lies
Did you ever get tired of hearing empty phrases like “We’re in this together” or “Together at home” repeated by the media a couple of years ago? While it
Moving Past Platitudes
Do you ever have those days when you just need a little encouragement? You know, those moments when “I’m praying for you” or “I’m thinking about you” just doesn’t
Shame and Magnetic Fields
It’s rare that I read a book just for enjoyment. Last month I read a book that was totally out of character for me called ‘Dogwatching’. From reading
The question I don’t answer
It still breaks my heart to read emails from those of you who continue struggling after the affair is over. The common theme is that the cheater is back, yet
Talking to both of the cheater’s brains
About five years ago I put out a special report on “How Affairs Hack Your Brain“. In the report, I mentioned the ’emotional brain’. For the sake of simplicity,
Handling an Affair years later
A husband approached me wanting answers to his situation. He felt torn in many ways about how to handle the matter. His wife had affairs years before and only
Forgiving the wrong thing
In raising children, one of the many things that fascinate me is the creative ways they solve problems. My sons have shown me solutions I never imagined. Whether it
What to do on discovering your wife’s affair
There’s something refreshing about straightforward questions. They get right to the main point without dancing around, making excuses or taking me down rabbit trails. A hurting husband asked, “My
Trends in a post-Covid world
One of the trends I’ve noticed in the post-Covid world is that the quality of questions being asked by spouses is changing. In the past, you haven’t had to
Ignoring the signs of an affair while looking for signs of an affair
Now that the world has been dealing with the Covid-19 virus and the associated Lockdown for several years, data is coming out on how people are dealing with it.
