Category: Understanding Affairs
Why should you listen to me
It’s amazing how many ideas I experience while driving or taking a shower. At those times, the pieces come together and suddenly make more sense. Although I haven’t jumped
“Am I being stupid?”
During the Christmas holidays, I encountered the question “Is it stupid to stay in my marriage after the affair?” On just reading the question, I felt my stomach wince
The Elvis Presley Memorial
Have you ever considered what makes Elvis Presley so popular? Although he died in August of 1977, some people continued fawning over him. He was extremely talented, yet in
The Action- Reaction Retraction Dance
Over the years I realized that there really is a purpose to math. Math allows me to track finances, keep tallies, and make sense of statistics. Although many kids
Letter to Mrs. Claus about Santa
First I want to wish each of you a Merry Christmas. This time of year, especially with it being 2023 has its emotional ups and downs. It’s the time of
Cheater Gift Giving
When it comes to cheating, things can take a bizarre turn really quickly. But the good news is that during this time of year, you can actually use the
Long-Term Affairs and the Freudian Slip
The Depth of Freudian Slips Freudian slips, named after the renowned psychologist Sigmund Freud, refer to unintentional errors in speech or writing that reveal subconscious thoughts, desires, or emotions. They
The Irony of Secrets
With the holiday season now upon us, you’ll be dealing with family gatherings. Anytime there are family gatherings, there are secrets. It’s often easier telling or keeping secrets than
The Victimless Crime?
Anytime a reader wants to know whether or not infidelity is a ‘victimless crime’, it sets off alarm bells in my head. Just the term itself has the connotation
The Threat of Family Affairs
One of the more unsavory types of affair threats is from encroaching family members. Affairs with cohorts or neighbors is bad enough. When the affair involves a family member
