One of the particularly challenging questions that often arises as couples take steps in repairing their marriage after an affair concerns the resolution spouse’s attitude. The attitude of the resolute spouse is critical to consider in looking at the marriage. When the resolute spouse is angry, cold and distant, it would not inspire anyone to want to get close to them. Healthy intimacy involves the desire of wanting to join or be at one with their spouse. When the spouse is cold, angry and distant, there is little that someone would want to join with. In taking steps to regain your spouse and restore the intimacy, attitude is critical to consider. To rebuild the relationship, there needs to be something to attract your spouse back.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
