Affairs are a matter of life and death. People often forget that the feelings aroused are powerful and illogical. Since the passions aroused are intense, there is always the possibility of them turning destructive. The potential of violence lies within the couple and the paramour. For this reason, it is not wise to intentionally provoke fights and altercations. Although you may feel relieved after a fight, the feelings it stirs up may take things to a place you never dreamed possible. Avoid being intentionally violent or making threats of violence. In the hypersensitive days after an affair comes out, threats are often taken personally and reacted to personally. You will want to reduce the tension before you start solving the problems and confronting the behaviors of those involved. Even though all you are doing is speaking the truth, when people are in the midst of an affair, they often do not want to hear the truth.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
