After affairs are out in the open, many issues are finally brought out into the open. One ploy used by adulterers is to plant seeds of doubt. While they are in denial, they often block things out either intentionally or unintentionally. The impact of their denial is that it often plants seeds of doubt in the resolute spouse. The impact of their denial is that it begins having you doubt your own recollection of what was said and done. In such times you may feel that you are going crazy. Since this is a highly emotional time, people are often more susceptible to suggestion at this time. So when the adulterer denies or distorts the facts, it is like planting seeds inside the resolute spouse. The effects of those seeds are that they determine your reality and you begin doubting your own gut reactions and recollection of the facts.
Recognizing what is happening will help keep you from being deceived.
Best Regards,
