The new year is a time for new beginnings and doing things in a new way. You already know what last year brought into your life.
News of the affair brought pain in many forms. One of the things it brought into your life is distrust of yourself. You already know you don’t trust the cheater, what you may not know is that it brought a distrust of yourself as well.
The whole shock of the affair leaves you doubting what you believe, your ability to make decisions and your ability to read people. You may even have doubts about your own sexuality and your identity.
Some may say that all that doubt sounds extreme. When you’ve been there, you know how crippling and widespread the self-doubt is.
These are not things you admit publicly to others, at least not the full extent of your not trusting yourself. You may put on a mask of confidence for the world, yet down inside, you doubt yourself in many areas.
That kind of doubt and inability to trust is crippling. The old you was able to take on the world, while the you of today is doing good to make it through the day.
The inability to trust yourself leaves scars. It weakens your confidence and morale. It saps your energy. It also takes over as much of your thinking as you let it.
Instead of letting your distrust take over your thinking, consider doing something about it. You see the problem, the new year gives you the opportunity to do something about it.
This is a great time to take advantage of a consultation package with myself. With the package, you receive weekly telephone consultations plus email support during the month that helps you make those important changes in your life.
You can start turning things around with a little help. There are parts of the old confident version of yourself still there, they just need to know what to do and encouragement in doing it.
When you don’t trust yourself, it leaves you afraid of your own choices. Getting help is one choice that helps you regain your life and confidence.
Email me today about available times and days ( Jeff@RestoreTheFamily.com) . The time you invest in yourself is what makes positive change possible.
You may even wonder if it is at all possible to trust yourself again. Thinking like that leaves you paralyzed in terms of taking action.
I believe that change is possible. I want you to regain your ability to trust yourself and your choices again.
No matter what happens to your marriage, it’s essential that you start trusting yourself again.
Getting past an affair requires you take action. Knowing what to do and when to do it makes a difference.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
