In dealing with the traumatic damage inflicted by affairs, spouses have to face the hard question “What is my marriage worth?“. Put another way, “What is my spouse worth?“.
Your answer shapes how much effort you’ll exert in working through recovery. You may claim that the cheater doesn’t care about your marriage. It’s at this point, you decide what value YOU place on your marriage.
This is a question where actions speak louder than words. Your actions show the value you place on your marriage.
Although those struggling with the affair put off facing the question, sooner or later, it demands an answer. If not answered at the time of the affair, it’s answered in family law courts.
In those courts, the judge makes and arbitrary decision concerning what your marriage is worth. When the judge makes the decision, it’s too late to make changes or modifications.
The judge determines the number of your marriage. That determination stands whether or not you agree with it.
Although some couples allow the judge or lawyers to decide the question by default, it’s when you’re suddenly faced with an affair, that the amount is more affordable.
Taking action such as purchasing the download “Affair Recovery Workshop” or attending counseling is a way to repair the relationship, before the alienation and distancing become permanent.
The cost of helpful resources and or counseling along with the time involved are more affordable than divorce court. The longer you wait before intervening, the larger the alienation grows and the more expensive any solution becomes.
If you’re facing an affair, it’s time you considered, “What’s your marriage worth?“. The next question to consider is “When are you going to do something about it?“. These two questions will make a difference between restoration or divorce.
Best Regards,
Jeff
