A truism regarding affairs is that no one, I repeat NO ONE is smart enough to be able to cover all their tracks.
In a small town, it is exceptionally difficult. People recognize you driving through town, in the local eateries, at the local hotels. Not only do you encounter these people during the affair, you run into them at the church, grocery store, hardware store or post office during the regular weekday.
They have seen you in action and now you have to see them in other settings. In the big city, much can be covered with a smile and polite nod, yet in small towns, you often find yourself in conversation with those people, and having to face them eye to eye.
In the event you are not dealing directly with the people who saw you, since people talk, their associates likely know who you are and what you have been doing.
You may be able to hide the affair itself, but you will not be able to hide the tracks of where you went, who you were with, etc. Hiding your lover from your spouse is one thing, but hiding all your tracks is not so easily accomplished.
On the internet, one can resort to track erasing software. Such software is not so readily available in real life.
Even you or your lover will have to visit their physician. Sexual activity will tell on you at the doctor’s office. There will be tell tale signs of what has been going on.
Even when you keep those signs hidden, then you have to deal with the psychosomatic symptoms which develop from keeping those things hidden.
Be careful where you go, for there will always be tracks.
Best Regards,
Jeff
