Some of you may wonder “What do we have to offer at Survive Your Partner’s Affair?” We have made some changes which we think will help things work better for you.
Having been on the internet since 1999, I’ve learned that you want to know about what’s new, or perhaps need a review of what my products and resources are.
First, we now offer our e-books at the website rather than redirecting you to Amazon. The only volumes still on Amazon only is “What does the Bible say about Affairs? Volume I” and “Six Keys to Raising Better Kids”. All the others are now on the website. This includes:
“Why He Cheats”- If you wonder what the motivations behind cheating and want answers, this is the book for you. You’ll also gain new understanding about the behavior and thinking of the cheater. Those areas don’t have to be a mystery any longer.
Although the title is “He”, the material applies to either gender. This volume also includes material on the “Affair Fog” and the influence fantasies have on affairs. It also includes ways of decoding the fantasies to know what is needed in your marriage and what your spouse’s needs are.
“Why Wasn’t I Enough?”-This ebook covers the most frequently asked questions related to affairs. All those areas you may have wondered about, including spying, self-doubt and other significant issues, you can find answers here.
This volume also includes the checklist that can help you know whether you are dealing with a sexual addiction or a common affair. Not knowing the difference leads to making the wrong choices in affair recovery.
“How Can I Trust You Again?”-The affair destroyed the trust you once enjoyed. You may wonder if there is any way of getting back what you lost. The trust can be rebuilt. This volume guides you through that rebuilding
This volume focuses on trust. It goes from what it is to how to rebuild it in your marriage. This volume includes the “trust formula” and addresses the question of ‘Which comes first, trust or forgiveness?’. Getting them confused creates many problems and confusion, so it’s essential to understand which comes first and get this right.
“Is There Any Hope?”-You may wonder if there is any hope for your marriage at all? Even when there hasn’t been an affair, you feel like your missing something.
This volume focuses on helping you rebuild your marriage relationship. Whether or not there has been an affair, many spouses want to know “What am I missing?” This book addresses that question and provides direction as to ways of rebuilding your marriage.
“Helping Your Child Heal”-This volume deals with how to handle children with affairs, whether they are toddlers or adult children. How to approach your children depends on their age and maturity. This book explains what the needs are and the ways of approaching the topic depending on their age and maturity.
I am especially proud of the “Affair Recovery Workshop” which provides more in-depth how to instructions taking you through affair recovery from D-Day to when you have to make hard choices.
The workshop is downloadable audio files which makes them wonderful for iPods or listening to while you are driving. The workshop is designed to address your unique needs of each stage of recovery, from the initial shock, through the talk times through the intimacy building.
Since many of you have been guilty of putting the cart before the horse, wanting to punish the cheater, and unleashing on them, before you have connected with them, you often push them away at the very time you needed them in the recovery.
We also have the DVD of “How Can I Trust You Again?” which covers the trust issue in a DVD format.
You may also want to check out the over 120 episodes of “Affair Recovery Radio” available at iTunes under podcasts. Download and vote for your favorite topic from “Affairs and ADD”, to “Lifting the Affair Fog” to “Dealing with Affair Ghosts” which are some of the more popular shows.
Since I am always working on new projects, I welcome hearing from you in terms of what your needs are as new projects are being developed.
We now have the videos on On the drawing board are projects dealing with “Overcoming Relationship Trauma for Swingers” and “Preventing Affair Relapse” and “Forgiveness: Stop the Pain, Tear down the Walls and Remove the Roadblocks“. Each of these help you with a critical area in recovering from an affair.
I appreciate your readership and support. Feel free to write with your questions and recommendations. I look forward to hearing from you.
Best Regards,
