Threats and how they change you

The other day, I was vividly reminded how fast life changes. In a few moments, the focus and direction of my day changed dramatically. Not only my focus, but my priorities suddenly shifted.

While walking the dogs with my son, we saw Mike outside and began talking to him. He told us about a series of fires he saw coming into the neighborhood. At first I wanted to dismiss them as routine small brush fires.

When I actually saw the extent of the fires and how quickly they spread, my mind shifted. At that moment, my priorities shifted. I saw an approaching danger. Those fires were now threatening my home and family.

Throughout the afternoon, as the smoke from the fires grew darker and the smell intensified, I not only saw the threat, my focus was no longer on the days ahead, it shifted to what I would do in the next few hours.

I talked to the local authorities about things like the speed of the fire and how contained it was. My conversations and who I talked to changed. Discussions with the neighbor now concerned evacuation plans. My day had radically changed.

The fires were contained and taken care of after a few hours. On reflecting over what happened, it surprised me how a threat so drastically changed who I talked to, what I thought about, and my priorities.

When you are faced with the threat of an affair, it suddenly shifts your mind and emotions. Threats change you.

There’s not a matter of choice, the threat grabs you and takes you where it wants to. No amount of positive vibes or vibrations changes things. You go where you’re taken.

When  a threat hits your marriage and family, you experience sudden involuntary shifts. What was important that morning is now drastically different. In a few moments, your world changes.

When that occurs, it leaves you wondering “How did that happen?” There’s a sensation of being lost and confused as you grapple with what just happened.

When that threat that hits your life is an affair, the download, “Affair Recovery Workshop” is a great tool in getting yourself back and adjusting to the shift.

You can start getting your life and emotions back.

Best Regards,

Jeff

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  1. 
If you know you not ready for a relationship why get into one and still cheat and liar. I was dying inside for my cheating husband, i had no prove, no one to run to. Everyone thought i was paranoid. until i was referred to a Private Investigator. I told him about my situation and He understood me well and helped me spy on my husband.He hacked my husbands Gmail and Facebook account and linked all my spouse WhatsApp and phone conversation to me, to find out the truth.I saw all the evidence and i was heart Broken.

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