Now the shape of your face determines Infidelity

There’s an odd little saying in French of ‘plus ça change, plus c’est la même chose‘. The English translation is roughly, “The more things change, the more they remain the same“.

That old statement echoed in my head on reading the news report of research coming out of Simon Fraser University in Canada regarding infidelity. The researchers found links between facial types and likelihood of a person cheating.

The researchers found links between the shape of people’s faces and their likelihood to cheat.  I guess when old timers say ‘I know a cheater when I see one’ may have been speaking the truth.

Imagine that, the shape of a person’s head influences whether or not they cheat. That finding totally contradicts the first lesson taught in the first psychology course I took.

In that class, the professor pointed out that modern science has advanced far beyond primitive ideas like phreneology. Psychology, the professor went on, no longer looks at the shape of people’s heads or reads bumps on their heads.

The irony that now researchers are now examining facial types and finding links between them and cheating behavior. That old French saying seemingly has some truth in it when it comes to research findings.

My own suspicion is that researchers want to find what makes people cheat. In their search, they are either grasping at straws or struggling for a way of making sense of the findings they encountered.

It’s also been established that many cheaters look for whatever excuse they can find in justifying their actions. They’ve been known to use all sorts of anthropology and animal study findings about whether monogamy is natural or not.

What I do know for sure is that when there’s been an affair, you can move past it. In most cases an affair doesn’t have to mean the end of your marriage.

Affair recovery is important no matter what facial type you have, or family history or history of promiscuity. No matter what factors you are in your life, you can recover from an affair.

In the “Affair Recovery Workshop”, you can gain the skills needed in moving past the affair.

Keeping It Real,

Jeff