Have you ever wondered about how the lover seems to control the cheater? There is an explanation for it and it’s not magic or putting them under a spell, even though it feels that way.
Relationships change people in ways you may have never imagined. Although high school relationships may have left you believing that you and mix and match relationships without consequences, researchers are finding that idea is not valid.
Researchers are finding that relationships change people, they are also uncovering how that happens. This means that your suspicion that your spouse is ‘not the same person’ they were is true.
The changes that happen with an affair reprogram the cheater. That reprogramming impacts their thinking, their emotions and their ability to carry out daily activities.
They’re no longer manning the control center of their brain. That control has changed in some major ways.
If you’ve wondered whose in control, there are answers.
Trying to change at the wrong control point makes interventions ineffective. You could be doing all the right things at the wrong places.
The cheater may think that their affair didn’t change them. They are unaware of the extent of the changes that happened inside of them and their brain.
If you ever wondered how this happens, then you’ll want to join the Restored Lifestyle support community. On the 15th, members will receive a special a article on “How Affairs Hack Your Brain“.
It explains what changes and how it happened. You’re not just imagining that your spouse is different. You still have time to join and receive the report.
The cheater may say that you are ‘crazy’ for thinking they’ve changed. The reality is that they have.
When you understand how that happened, you are better equipped for understanding what you’re up against and what your next step should be.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
