Have you ever noticed the tendency of defaulting to sexual innuendoes when you don’t understand something or someone bothers you? Without fail, when things get beyond our understanding or too annoying, there’s a tendency to default to sexual innuendo.
In using them, it gives you an illusion of explanation. You have a new label for what someone is doing that you can live with, even though it’s not accurate.
Take affairs for example. how often have you heard the phrase that someone is thinking with their dyck? Blaming the affair on their sexual organs gives you an illusion of an explanation.
At some level, you know that they really don’t think with their sexual organs. It’s just that in saying they do gives you some kind of answer that you’re willing to accept.
If you persist in this line of thinking, where are you going to intervene during affair recovery? Rehabilitating their sexual organs is not going to improve anything.
Although you may have entertained fantasies of castration, or even chemical castration, such interventions have not worked in prisons or harems and they won’t work in your situation.
Doing interventions based on wrong assumptions gives you frustration. Wrong assumptions lead to wrong answers.
Biologically, although their sexual organs contain nerves, they don’t think. In terms of how your body is wired, they are just ‘following orders’.
This is where the upcoming report on “How Affairs Hack Your Brain” can help. This upcoming report available only to members of Restored Lifestyle explains where the problem lies. The report comes out August 15th, so you only have a few days to obtain your copy.
Knowing who your enemy is and where the problem lies guides you in finding workable solutions. Their sexual organ is not the enemy. You’ll want to obtain your copy of “How Affairs Hack Your Brain” so that you can know where the problem lies and what you can do about it.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
