Today I found myself wanting to wad up and throw away some of my emails I received like I used to do to old school papers. There’s something about destroying the very existence of something I don’t like that’s enjoyable.
In previous generations, with some hiding of evidence and creative lying, cheaters could easily hide an affair. These days, those strategies don’t work like they used to.
I was reminded of this with one of the bothersome emails I wanted to remove. It was from my insurance company. They want me to download their phone app.
Although they make the app sound beneficial, the reality is that it also includes tracking capabilities. There’s something bothersome about an insurance company knowing all my whereabouts.
I know I’m already being tracked by Google. Each month I receive a report about all the places I’ve been during the month. Any place I take my cell phone, it puts down a trail of bread crumbs to follow.
It even tracks the speed at which the traveling occurred.
Then, there’s also the GPS in some vehicles that keep track of where you’ve been along with time stamps of when you were there. It makes you wonder why any spouse would hire a private eye, when technology does the work for them.
To top it off, there’s a nice report at the end of the month detailing all the places you’ve been along with notices of the new places you’ve been. You even have the ability to write reviews of those new places, including reviews of the restaurants.
This means that betrayed spouses no longer have to purchase GPS trackers. All they need these days is the ability to access your Gmail account and they can know where the cheater actually went.
This advance in technology also means that lying about where you’ve been or who you’ve been with no longer works. A creative spouse with the Google information can generate all kinds of information you thought was destroyed or hidden.
It also means that if you’re a cheater who can’t remember everything, there are ways of finding out. There are cases where cheaters zone out to such a degree with their cheating, they have little to no recollection of what they’ve done or where they’ve gone.
Whether you hide information or can’t recall it, your betrayed spouse knows. Either way, whether your caught up in your own denial or forgetfulness, now is the time for doing something about the affair.
In the video “Help for the Cheater: Starting the Road to Recovery“, you’ll find what you need to do in starting the journey of getting your life back together.
Just click and download the video and within a few minutes you can be on your way to turning things around.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
