Yesterday, I discussed the brain and its role in affairs. Although the brain is important to consider, something more important is your heart.
Researchers found that your heart is about 100,000 times stronger electrically than your brain. This means that what’s going on in your heart impacts those around you and your environment in ways you never imagined.
The energy field generated by your heart, be it positive or negative shapes the people around you. That field can draw people toward you or push them away.
It can produce encouraging kinds of energy that lifts everyone up or suck people dry with the power drain it contains to the point they dread being around you.
Even though commercials promote clean breath and the removal of body odors as what attracts people around you, the truth is that your heart is more important.
This is even more important to consider now that you’re dealing with an affair. When your heart is broken, whatever was inside comes out, be it love, hate or bitterness.
There’s no amount of mouthwash, perfume or body wash that can cover over the impact of your heart on changing those around you. What’s inside is going is coming out and your spouse will pick up on it.
The energy field coming out of your heart operates around the clock. It also operates whether you intend it to or not.
Those around you will sense what’s coming out, even when they can’t put their finger on it.They will ‘feel’ something, even though they aren’t sure what it is.
You will be drawing them closer or pushing them away.
This is huge reason why it’s important that you remove any bitterness or resentments. Those emotions push people away at a time when you need them.
One way of changing what’s in your heart is through forgiveness. Recall that forgiveness isn’t about condoning what happened. It’s about you letting go of your hurts, resentments and whatever other ugly things are in your heart.
In the video Forgiveness: Stop the Pain, Tear down the Walls and Remove the Roadblocks, I share with you ways of changing what’s in your heart. Rather than allowing those things to continue being a roadblock to your relationships, take action to change that now.
Download the video and start making heart-felt changes today. Put the power of your heart to work in healing your life and marriage.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
