Category: Rebuilding marriage relationship after the affair
“How can I avoid being hurt again?”
One of the blogs I follow periodically is “The Betrayed Wives Club“. I find it helps to hear the many perspectives concerning infidelity. A recent headline there caught my
The Danger of Accusations
In reading letters from spouses, a common issue expressed concerns accusations of affairs. One central thing is true. Accusations, especially about affairs damage relationships. I considered what makes accusations
The Affair Stigma
As I was about to leave home on an errand, my wife looked at me and asked “Are you going out with THAT shirt on?” I’ve learned from experience
Two Uncomfortable Truths about Affairs
Uncomfortable truths are hard to hear. Even though they’re true, it doesn’t make them easier to accept. One of those hard truths about affairs is that except for close
The Rooster Gives Himself Away
There’s a saying in Jamaica of ‘Cock mout kill cock‘. The saying means that the crowing of the rooster (cock mouth) brings attention to himself which makes it easier
Affairs and Ultimatums
One of the trickiest areas to navigate in relationships is that of ultimatums. Handling ultimatums poses challenges for the one on the giving end and the one on the
“Can he change?”
In one of my e-books, I addressed the most frequently asked questions about affairs. Although I addressed what at the time were the most frequently asked questions, there’s always one
Cheerleader Enthusiasm
In getting through crises, it always helps to hear an encouraging “you can make it through this” from someone who’s been there. When I’ve been in the middle of
Emotional Lyme Disease
Have you considered how you’d react if all the symptoms of Affair Trauma hit you at once? If those symptoms were acute, showing up overnight, you’d be concerned. Think
Are You Willing to do the Work?
Do you want your marriage healed? Although this sounds like something that you want, you need to seriously ask yourself this question. Let’s assume that you want your marriage
