Category: Rebuilding marriage relationship after the affair
Who Should take Initiative in Healing My Marriage?
There are times when it helps to revisit topics covered before. It’s not that people weren’t listening or paying attention. In most cases, they were so overwhelmed they weren’t
The Post-Affair Breakdown
About the time I think I’m near catching up on responding to questions coming in, a new one arrives. This time a reader wants to know “Can I have
Arguing to win or for the Truth
If you ever pick up one of my books in my library, they’re filled with notes and underlined passages. Over the years, I’ve developed a system of stars, exclamation
When they can’t remember
Have you pondered what it is about affairs that interfere with memory? There’s something about memory and affairs that’s baffling. When you question your spouse and receive the response
Scars from a Narcissistic Spouse
There are times when you feel alone in your pain. This is especially true when you have little to no support system. I am here to tell you that
Is Cheating More Likely in Couples With ADHD?
In the intricate tapestry of human relationships, countless threads can snag, unravel, or chart surprisingly new paths. For couples grappling with the complexities of adult ADHD, a unique set
Photographs and Memories
Are there times you have found yourself being caught up with the question “Why didn’t I see this coming?” when it comes to the affair? You may have spent
Infidelity Healing and Affair Recovery for Couples
Rebuilding Trust and Fostering Emotional Safety: Strategies for a Resilient Relationship After Your Partner’s Affair Affairs can cause immense pain and heartache, shaking the very foundation of a relationship.
Starting Over with a new Foundation
Starting over again poses challenges. In starting over again it’s important that you have a new foundation for your marriage. A solid foundation gives you grounding. It also provides
“Am I being stupid?”
During the Christmas holidays, I encountered the question “Is it stupid to stay in my marriage after the affair?” On just reading the question, I felt my stomach wince
