Category: Rebuilding marriage relationship after the affair

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Starting Over with a new Foundation

Starting over again poses challenges. In starting over again it’s important that you have a new foundation for your marriage. A solid foundation gives you grounding. It also provides

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“Am I being stupid?”

During the Christmas holidays, I encountered the question “Is it stupid to stay in my marriage after the affair?” On just reading the question, I felt my stomach wince

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The Power of Mentors

Mentors have been a major influence in my life. Bob Reichlin, Dan Minner, and Marlin Lance each brought valuable lessons that have stayed with me. Despite their contrasting approaches,

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One Person can change things

When you do a TED talk, it immediately gives you expert and celebrity status. At that point anytime you speak, you’re identified as having given a TED talk. Whether

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Struggling to set boundaries

Are you continuing to struggle with setting boundaries? Since setting boundaries is an essential skill in recovering from an affair, struggling in this area slows down your recovery. Some

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