Category: Rebuilding Your Marriage
Surviving Infidelity Together: A Guide to Rebuilding
Surviving infidelity together: learn essential steps, from open communication to rebuilding trust and seeking help. Strengthen your bond after an affair.
Common Sense, Affairs and Boundaries
It strikes me as common sense that when an affair happens, one spouse has done the other wrong. Not only that, breaking your marriage vows is another wrong. Besides
Reclaiming your marriage
Are there times you want to take your life back? The whole idea of reclaiming the life you once had is appealing. Although this sounds appealing, it’s deceptive. The
Hearing what your wife isn’t saying
One of the lessons about relationships I learned years ago is “When your wife complains about the trash not being taken out, the real issue isn’t the trash.” That
Therapists and the Divorce Industry
One of the essential items for me to have when reading research, books, or articles is a pen. Over the years I’ve found them helping in making notations, underlining,
When there is no vision for your marriage
One of the challenges I encounter in working with couples dealing with affairs is complacency. By complacency, I mean that they complain about their situation. They may even talk
When privacy does not matter
On seeing the headline “Wife considers snooping through husband’s phone over suspicious text” I wondered why that was considered headline material. The headline and article made it sound like
When trust isn’t obvious
Recent events in my life have reminded me of the importance of trust. Trust is so foundational to relationships, that it’s often taken for granted. Like the old ‘you
Facebook is killing people
There were mixed reactions in the press to President Biden claiming that ‘Facebook is killing people’. The fact is, President Biden is onto something with his statement. Scoffers may
“Can one person change a marriage?”
When you do a TED talk, it immediately gives you expert and celebrity status. At that point anytime you speak, you’re identified as having given a TED talk. Whether
