Category: Rebuilding Your Marriage
Saying “NO” to temptation
A few years ago, my next door neighbor Rob moved out of his home. I remember him moving in the spring. With Spring, many people make changes and new
The challenge of a second D-day means…
Some of you have faced the challenge of a second D-Day. Going through a second D-Day doesn’t make things any easier. In situations where there’s been a period of
“Is it normal to have residual feelings for my AP?”
In going through the affair related blogs, one of the entries caught my eye. The writer has questions about residual feelings for his AP (Affair Partner / Lover). Rather
“Do marriages fall apart after swinging?”
An inquiring reader asked whether marriages fail after trying the swinger lifestyle. Since I haven’t seen any ‘official’ numbers on this topic, my first answer is “I don’t know”.
Is everything lost once trust is broken?
Lately I’ve received comments on social media about trust. There have been several comments along the lines of ” Once trust is broken , everything else is lost too
Dealing with an unloving spouse
The other week, a reader wrote to me expressing concern regarding my response to a question that came in of “How do I deal with an unloving partner?” She
“So much of what you say is just not accurate!”
On occasion I receive emails from the lovers. I recently received one where she pointed out “…so much of what you wrote (and what I’ve seen so many others
The Dangers of being married to a Love Addict
When you’re married to a love addict, there are times when you feel like you’re living with a ticking time bomb. You’re unsure of what’s going to happen next
Fixing my Accusing Spouse
There’s something about the word ‘fix’ that grates on me. When you use it in reference to cars, washing machines, or electronic devices, I’m fine with it. It’s when
Still holding a grudge against my spouse
Today, my wife and I looked through some of our old photos. Our search was for a good photo of my wife’s aunt in her younger days. Photos reveal
