Category: Rebuilding Your Marriage
How can I get her (him) to trust me?
Getting your spouse to trust you again after cheating is a daunting task. They have good reasons for not trusting you. In the past you could realistically expect them
Till death do us part or I get tired of you, whichever comes first
Valentine’s Day is often when we celebrate love and the many facets of love. One of those facets, which often gets lip service but few want to follow through
Changing the rules of the relationship
All relationships have rules, including your marriage. When cheating occurs, the rules are suddenly up for grabs. What used to be black and white is now gray. What you
The twisted thinking of cheating
The damage inflicted on your marriage by cheating may be more extensive than you first assumed. You may have taken steps to remove the lover from your lives, talked
Using ‘hair of the dog’ to deal with guilt
Anyone who has been through an affair eventually has to deal with the question of guilt. When the time comes to work through the issues related to the affair,
Forgetting how to talk to each other
In the aftermath of an affair, you may have forgotten how to talk to your spouse. In the midst of your pain, you may have lost the ability to
Do men have a harder time forgiving cheating than women?
The question was directed at me asking whether men have a harder time forgiving cheating than women do. I have not seen any data on whether it harder for
Marriage counseling after the affair
In the aftermath of your spouse’s cheating, you may have considered going to a marriage counselor. There are many benefits to going to counseling, there are also some potential
Does your intimacy suck?
If you are like most couples, you may think that the intimacy in your marriage is OK. You may be one of the few brave souls who tells it
Getting rid of the secrets
Undoing the mess of your spouse’s cheating is unpleasant task. The task is part sewage work, part carrion removal and part rock crushing. While carrying out this unpleasant task,
