In recovering from an affair, questions arise concerning what you should do. With the many options available, a question that will help you is to consider, “Do I fix the problem or the symptom?” To illustrate this, let us first consider car problems. Recently when our car was overheating, we were faced with the question, do we add coolant to fix the symptom or take it to the mechanic to find out what caused it to overheat in the first place? I took it to the mechanic and fixed the source of the problem.
In dealing with your marriage and relationship problem are you focused on symptom relief or on fixing the problem? In our modern society, there are plenty of products that provide symptom relief but do not fix the problem. Among many that I have seen couples use are breast enhancement, sexual performance aides, surgery to reduce weight, etc. These items will provide some initial help, but do not fix the problem. In the case of sexual performance, the issues need to be addressed that lie within the persons head and heart, not with enlarging the genitalia or making the body do unnatural things. If the desire is not there, the problem is not with the genitalia, it is in the heart and head. So in your situation, do you want symptom relief or do you want to fix the problem?
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
