One of the dangers of the internet, and especially social network sites is that many people use them to stalk others. This feature brings an element of danger to any affair, whether it is virtual or otherwise. The ability to stalk means that the spurned lover may hunt down your partner or even the resolute spouse during and after the affair. This feature also poses a danger for the lover. The lover can also be stalked by an anger or obsessed spouse.
Getting involved in an affair is often akin to Russian Roulette in that the unsuspecting spouse may not have considered the psychological make up of the person they selected to have an affair with (or who had an affair with them). When you can get into another person’s pants, the likelihood is that there are some self-control issues at work. Those same poor self-control that made it easy to score, makes that person dangerous. The easy score may also have limited self-control when it comes to revenge or respecting boundaries.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
