One of the sure things an affair brings into your life is suffering. Suffering is a strong word. It needs to be. Suffering conveys the painful experience you’ll find yourself going through.
The suffering that comes with an affairs isn’t pleasant or something you look forward to. If anything, you want it to end as quickly and painlessly as possible. You’d rather not go through the experience.
One of the effects of the suffering is that you find out who your ‘true’ friends are. You discover who sticks with you and has your best interest. You see who remains with you and who leaves when the pain gets too intense.
You also discover who hates members of the opposite sex. This becomes apparent as they generalize how “all” men or women are. This type only stick around as long as you are seeking revenge for the affair.
They encourage you with terms like “you know how MEN are” or “You just can’t trust WOMEN“. It’s as if they want revenge for some wrongs done them in the past.
There’s also another group of so-called friends who view the affair as their opportunity to become more than friends with you. They’ve waited for their time when the emotional environment provided them with opportunity.
This is a painful way of discovering who your ‘real’ friends are. It’s sobering and enlightening seeing those who want to be around you in the light of your crisis.
You discover ‘who’ really has your best interest. You discover who really cared about your marriage and who secretly held resentments about your marriage.
Although I can’t physically be with you during this time, you can receive help via the video “Getting Past the Affair Crisis”. In it, you’ll find guidance on getting you started in recovering from the affair and the suffering that comes with it.
Although you may be embarrassed or would rather avoid it, this is one situation you have to go through rather than around. Finding work-arounds in dealing with the affair means that the affair hasn’t really been dealt with.
Order your copy today. It won’t end your suffering, but it will guide you as you go through these challenging days.
The video can be replayed anytime you need direction and encouragement. It’s there whatever time of day or night you need it.
Rather than waiting for the ‘next available appointment’, you can instead start on recovery from the affair within minutes.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
