With the holidays upon us, there is a greater tendency for people to drink. With the increase in the amount of alcohol used comes the danger of affairs, Whether intentional or unintentional, the increased consumption of alcohol also increases the possibility of affairs. It may not necessarily be your spouse that did the heavy alcohol consumption, it could be someone else who did the drinking and makes advances that would not have otherwise been taken.
If you or your spouse will be in places with heavy drinking, there is an elevated risk of affairs occurring. Exercising caution and common sense will help reduce the dangers.
These guidelines will help reduce the likelihood of an affair.
1. Do not drink too much
2. Avoid associating with those that are drinking too much
3. Do not discuss your love life or personal relationships over drinks
4. Do not listen to others discuss their love life or personal relationships over drinks
5. Be aware of the frequent use of double meanings and the sexualizing of language often used by seducers
6. Do not go into places where alcohol is served with a member of the opposite sex
7. Maintain professional boundaries within work associates
8. Maintain mannerly boundaries when socializing in public
9. Do not draw undue attention to yourself through provocative clothing
10. Be aware that after a few drinks, people often behave more like animals. If the drinking becomes heavy, you will need to leave.
Although Christmas is a time for good cheer, giving and celebration, it is also a time of increased dangers. Taking a few precautionary steps will help make it a safe and affair-free holiday season.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
