One of the false assumptions concerning affairs is that the lover is all the problem. Many couples assume that by removing the lover from the picture, all the problems are solved. The lover was the infidels solution to the problem. The problem that existed before the affair still exists. The only thing that changed was who was selected as the solution of the problem. If you are seriously interested in solving the problem, recognize that it does not lie with the lover. The lover is only the symptom of deeper relationship or personal problems. With this in mind, when you are looking for answers and solutions, the place to start is with the relationship and in the hearts of the couple.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
