Even though affairs bring discomfort, embarassment, pain and betrayal, many choose to continue suffering in desperation. They hold onto the hopes that things will somehow improve given enough time. They are holding to a ‘magic’ idea that something will take their pain away and heal the relationship without them having to do anything. There are some relationships that in the midst of crisis do a massive turn around, yet the majority only change with effort. It takes effort to reach out for help. It requires effort to find out what to do, identify your options and then weigh out which direction to go. Many of these topics are addressed in the book offered on SurviveYourPartnersAffair.com Once the decision is make as to what to do, then courage is needed to put that choice into place. It takes courage and strength to transform relationships. Although the easy choice is to wait for the changes to occur with time, in order to make the relationship healthy after an affair, it takes courage and a willingness to act.
With the Resurrection season now on us, it is a prime time to summon the courage to act. You can choose to suffer or to thrive.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey D. Murrah
