Lovers often come out of the woodwork on the holidays. The is not much of a mystery as to why they do. You want to spend the holidays with your loved ones and those you care about. When you are married, you want to spend them with your spouse. The holidays often enhance the feelings associated with the relationship. When they are enjoyable feelings, that is good. When they are negative feelings, …the holidays can be something to be endured rather than enjoyed. Lovers who are enduring their holidays often seek an escape, they want your spouse. They are hoping to escape the misery of their pain with the affair.
The holidays bring out a sense of desperation. They will want more and demand more from the cheaters. The cheaters will attempt to meet those requests. They may want more time, gifts, etc. They want to enjoy the holidays as well, but only with your spouse.
These desperate moves bring opportunities along with dangers. There is a greater chance of catching a cheater during the holidays than many other times of the year. With this in mind, keep your eyes open.
More information on holidays and affairs will be available in the webinar “Don’t let the Ho-Ho-Ho’s ruin your holiday” coming in December.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
