The new year provides an excuse to make changes. It offers an excuse to make changes in the direction of health. Rather than continue putting off doing something about an affair, you can do something. You can use the new year as an excuse to improve your marriage.
It has long been known that those who set goals tend to accomplish more than those who do not. Have you included your marriage as part of your goal setting? Have you included any goals for improving the quality of the relationship you have with your spouse?
I have made a list of 11 things you can do, since it will be 2011.
1. Be more honest
2. Be more encouraging to them
3. Learn how to confront without attacking
4. Take better care of yourself
5. Set aside time to talk with your spouse
6. Tell them you love them more (better yet, show them you love them)
7. Let go of your lover, emotionally and physically.
8. Go for more walks with your spouse
9. Listen to your spouse
10. Set goals with your spouse
11. Learn more about how to improve your relationship
If you need some help, my publications are available on Kindle and the AffairRecoveryGroup provides a forum for the help you need.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
