A confused mind is a non-decisive mind. When you are confused you are not wanting to make choices. You do not want to decide anything. you are doing good to choose something to wear to day that matches much less decide matters concerning what to do about the cheater’s junk.
When everyone bombards you with what you should do, you do not feel like doing anything. It seems that everyone, their brother and friend of a friend have advice concerning what you should do right now. IN some cases, they may be right. In most cases, you may need to recover before you are ready to do anything. You may need to regain your sense of self before you are ready to go on.
One resource that I recommend is the Affair Recovery Group. It is a community. They are people who have gone through the pain and know what you are struggling through. Rather than stumble blindly, they are there as you struggle through the pain. You will eventually make decisions, but you may not be ready yet, and that is okay. Find a place where you can get your head and your heart together again. Much like Humpty-Dumpty, you are in need of pulling yourself together and no one can do it for you.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
