One of the events that often occurs with affair situations is crises. When the crisis arrives, it impacts the couple involved. Any crisis has the potential to either force the couple to come together and cooperate or for each to go to their separate corners and lead to the relationship fragmenting. Even the Chinese symbol for crisis is akin to the one used for opportunity.
What makes the difference is the attitude that couples approach the crisis with. If you are bound and determined to leave your spouse the crisis will provide such an opportunity. If you are wanting to work together with your spouse, a crisis provides the opportunity to show that you are not all talk. It is a way to show them that you do care and that you are committed to the relationship.
Crises are sure to come. They do not have to spell the end of the relationship. They can be used as transformation points in the relationship when handled effectively.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
