When you are working on repairing your marriage, you will need to remember important dates. Remembering anniversaries, birthdays, and important events often goes a long way in rejuvenating your marriage. If you are the one remembering and the cheater is not acknowledging them, you will not want to take offense at their non-remembrance. Even if your acknowledgement of the important date is a card, greeting or small present, it shows that your remembered and that they are important to you. The remembrance of such events is a reminder that life goes in cycles and that your lives are intertwined. When you married your spouse, the two of you became one. With the two of you becoming one, there will need to be a transformation of your thinking so that their important days become yours as well. It is a way of validating them and validating ya’ll relationship.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
