Sam and Carol began seeing me for counseling. Initially, they were stand offish. They had already been to several counselors for their problems and they had a ‘here we go again’ attitude.
After a few sessions, things started changing. Rather than viewing counseling as a necessary evil, they actually looked forward to it. They started feeling more comfortable about their relationship and the direction things were headed. They felt hopeful in a way they hadn’t in years.
I asked them about these changes and Sam replied, “You get me. You listen and understand what I’m telling you, even when I can’t find the right words to express what’s going on.”
Although many of the other counselors saw similar issues, something changed this time. What same referred to as me ‘getting’ him was about me using my knowledge of brain and communication hacks as a way of connecting with him.
I knew the importance of making connection and how it changes things.
There are times when you wish you could get into your spouse’s head and have a road map to their brain. You want to know what they’re thinking along with what you can do about it.
With the affair, you may think that they ‘must’ have some form of mental illness for them to do what they did.You tell yourself that only a ‘crazy person’ would step outside of a marriage with you and cheat.
Yet, after their affair, their actions and thinking are very different than what you’re accustomed to.
The truth is that there are things you can do to get into their head. When you understand how affairs change the brain, you can understand ways of gaining access to their brain as well.
Hacking their brain isn’t some big mystery. There are ways of getting their attention, moving past their defenses and saying things in a way that sink into their brain.
Understanding the connection between brains and affairs doesn’t have to be some mysterious unknown knowledge. You can know how this connection works and how to make it work for you.
You can have a road map to their head and how it works. Rather than frustrating yourself with trial and error attempts at getting through to them, you can instead know how to phrase what you say in a way that gets through.
I’ve put together my material on brain hacks and using them in one package. It’s called the ‘Brain Hack Pack’. In it, you’ll learn how the affair changed their brain and how you can hack into their thinking.
Getting your spouse’s attention is no longer an impossible or improbable feat. When you use the techniques presented, you can finally ‘get’ your spouse and they can ‘get’ what you’ve been telling them.
You can connect with each other in a meaningful way.
This means you no longer have to feel like your banging your head against the wall when trying to communicate with them. Now you can have the hacks and tools that unlock the gates and barriers that frustrated you before.
There are ways of getting their brain and yours back to ‘normal’. The changes in thinking can be undone. The affair brain can be healed.
Purchase your copy of the Brain Hack Pack today and start unlocking what had been off limits before.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
