There are times when you tell yourself that “He’s not the man I married.” You know he’s changed since the affair, yet you can’t quite put your finger on what’s different.
He may still look the same and do many of the same things he did before, yet he’s different. Even after spending countless hours thinking about it rather than sleeping, you can figure it out.
You know the affair changed him, and you want your old husband back. Although you want him back, you’re frustrated by not even knowing exactly what’s different.
When you don’t know how he’s changed, how can you get him back the way he was?
Let me start by assuring you that you’re not losing your mind. He has changed. The affair has changed him.
One way affairs change the betrayer is inside their brain. You’re not imagining those changes. Actual changes have occurred in the wiring of their nerves.
The changes started in their brain long before you saw any changes on the outside. How their brain works and functions changes with the affair. Their brain has literally been rewired by what happened.
Those changes are powerful and the longer they remain, the more powerful they grow.
When you understand what those changes are and ways of using those changes to your benefit, you have ways of using brain hacks to change the wiring back.
Healing from the affair pain also includes rewiring their brain. A man can’t take fire into his bosom and not be burned, and neither can he have an affair without his brain being changed by the event.
They may cover it up and try hiding those changes. You sense it and know that he’s different.
When you use brain hacks, you can speed healing for them and yourself. Fixing your marriage after the affair is only window dressing compared to fixing the betrayers brain.
The affair started in their brain, and that’s where change is needed. Changing their thinking, changes their behavior. When you have the tools for hacking their brain, you can start making the needed changes.
I’ve put together my special reports on affairs and brain hacking in a special “Brain Hack Pack“. The material in the report explains what happened in their brain along with how you can use brain functioning in healing their brain and yours after the affair.
This material has only been available to members of my membership site in the past, and now I want to make it available to you. You can use the brain hacks to restore your sanity and theirs.
Healing after the affair is needed inside those involved along with healing your marriage. The tools in this report provide you with what you need for rewiring damaged thinking. You can undo the insane thinking behind the affair.
There are things you can do about their ‘Affair Brain’.
Purchase your copy of this special report today.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
