If you’ve been following me for a while, you may remember a post from last year where I mentioned an episode where cheaters met in the cigar lounge of a cruise ship for their rendezvous. Although I was somewhat surprised, that happens quite often on cruises.
I can only surmise that the betrayers wife thought he was only going to smoke a cigar and that “It’s so wonderful that the two of them can get away.” Little did she know what was actually transpiring on the cruise.
Cheating on cruises isn’t limited to passengers either. It’s quite common among the crew on those ships. Although the coronavirus scare put a damper on cruising, the pause isn’t likely to stop cheater cruising for long.
There are even special cruises designed for swingers, where they talk about ‘taking over’ the ship. It’s not like a mutiny, they just take over portions of the ship during the voyage for their activities.
There’s even a term for arranged cheating on a cruise. It’s called a ‘straycation’. Although straycations refer to any vacation where cheating is included, going on cruises is a common avenue for them.
Imagine going on a cruise with your spouse, having romantic fantasies of the two of you enjoying the experience, when in reality a whole other drama is unfolding. They are also bringing their AP along with them.
It’s quite a shock discovering that your spouse hasn’t left the affair behind them at port. In having the AP (affair partner/lover) on board, they are living out a fantasy within a fantasy and you’re only one small part of it.
The cure for a straycation isn’t taking another cruise. The cure is for the two of you to work through the Affair Recovery Workshop. Although it requires time and effort, by following the instructions, it’ll put you and your marriage in a much stronger place.
The time you spend working on your marriage always pays dividends. It’s not as relaxing as a cruise or straycation, but it certainly puts your marriage in a better place.
When it comes to affairs, rather than getting away from things, you need to face them and work through them. Why throw away a perfectly good marriage? With some investment, you and your spouse can get things working for the both of you again.
Order your copy of the workshop today and undo the damage of straycations from your marriage.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
