It hasn’t surprised me that many couples discovered hidden infidelity during the lockdown or Shelter-in-place /Stay at home (depending on where you live and what it’s called there.) When you spend extended time with each other, it puts you into a position where secrets are exposed.
With the shelter-in-place, you don’t have all the distractions that previously would have drawn your attention away. It also means that you’re faced with living with the fallout.
The divorce lawyers are waiting for this period to end so that they can clean up. Like vultures, they hover around troubled marriages in eager anticipation of its dissolution.
They know there’s more money to be made from a troubled marriage going through breaking up than a happy one.
Unlike the lawyers, I’d prefer if the two of you stay together. It’ll surprise you that many marriages, like yours are salvageable.
The two of you now have to face things rather than avoid them. Some of you may even be frightened by this. It may also be a wake-up call alerting you to how shallow your life had become. You may even find that your family life is anemic at best.
The shelter-in-place puts you in a position where you have to get real, which can start turning your marriage around if handled in a good way.
The discovery of an affair doesn’t automatically mean your marriage is over. It does mean action is needed in changing things in your marriage.
You know change is needed, but do you know what the most important areas needing change?
What changes will bring the most impact?
You know many things need to be worked out, but do you know where to start?
You know you want improvements, but do you know how to bring them up without starting another argument?
If you want answers to questions like these, then the video “Getting Past the Affair Crisis” is for you. It focuses on those initial days and weeks after discovering the affair.
You can have someone guide you through those confused and stunned days of emotional shock. Rather than wander about dumbfounded, you can instead have clear direction in threading your way back to sanity.
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Keeping It Real,
Jeff
