One of the most dangerous weapons in the arsenal of modern nations are submarines. Submarines are dangerous due to them being able to hide.
The ability of submarines to travel undetected makes them one of those dreaded fears in the minds of political leaders. They know that these weapons can sneak up on you with little to no warning.
Those sneaky submarines hide offensive weapons and with increasing frequency illegal drugs. Narco subs are now a major threat as well.
With improved technology submarines are capable of launching an even greater array of missiles, bombs and other devices. The only limit to their potential damage is the imagination of weapons manufacturers.
I find submarines and their sneaky threat akin to emotional affairs. The emotional affair threat lies hidden most of the time.
The cheater downplays the danger of an emotional affair with comments like “we’re just friends” or “it’s nothing serious“. The reality is emotional affairs are serious threats to your marriage.
Whether they’re coming from an ex that won’t let go or an old high school friend, they’re a danger in plain sight. Many dangers hide behind what appears innocent.
They may not look like an affair on the surface. Like a submarine hiding under the ocean surface, unseen from the air or surface, the danger of the emotional affair is something neither the cheater nor the betrayed see the full danger of.
Even when you see the danger, it’s hard convincing the cheater of the danger. The cheater doesn’t see the danger until its grown too large. When the emotional engagement is bigger than they are, they finally see the danger.
Their loyalty to their old friend blinds them to the danger of the ever growing emotional affair.
The cheater may say “ you’re being paranoid“, or jealous or over-reactive. You know something is wrong, and are unable to communicate it in a way they understand.
Their own denial is keeping them from seeing the danger of that old friendship.
In the video, “Let’s Talk: Hurting People and Healing Questions”, you’ll learn ways of bypassing the defenses and connecting with your spouse once again.
There are ways of getting your message to them warning them of the dangers you see. Taking action now is better than waiting until more damage is done.
Click, download and watch the video today. The danger of emotional affairs is real. Making better ways of connecting with your spouse is a way of reducing that threat.
Emotional affairs and submarine threats can be neutralized when you know ‘how’ to neutralize them. I encourage you to obtain your copy so that you can handle the threat of emotional affairs.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
