Are you worried about the dangers of workplace affairs and ‘mom shaming’? I’ve been thinking about this lately and it’s been bothering me.
I understand that single mothers face unique challenges and some individuals don’t care about the marital status of their potential partners. So, is it appropriate to shame moms for their actions?
In my opinion, there’s a time and place to call them out when it comes to promiscuous behavior. Whether it’s a man or a woman, cheating on your spouse is never okay. And if they’re a parent, it doesn’t make it any better.
Some spouses try to get around this by sleeping with their exes, even if they’re married to someone else. But in my mind, it’s still an affair, even if it’s with an ex.
When a mom is the one sleeping around, it adds an unnatural twist to the situation. It’s unacceptable to use their needs and vulnerabilities to steal someone’s husband.
Using the role of a parent to hook up with people at school events or PTA meetings is distasteful. Even if the other person doesn’t know their marital status, the fact that they’re a fellow parent should raise some red flags. They know the person they’re hooking up with has kids. They should realize they might be married.
The chances of meeting a married person in these circumstances are high. So, their motives are suspicious. It’s hard not to shame when kids are used as pawns in finding a replacement spouse. All they have to do is replace you.
No matter the reason, these relationships pose a threat to your marriage. If you’re dealing with this situation, it’s time to download the Affair Recovery Workshop. This workshop will help you handle the conflicts, understand the dynamics, and improve your relationship.
Instead of being caught off guard by single parents looking to steal your spouse, download the workshop and protect yourself and your marriage.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
