Have trouble moving on after forgiving someone? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. It’s actually a really common problem that I’ve noticed. What bothers me the most is that it’s a problem that can be prevented. The issue lies in the prevalence of fake and surface-level forgiveness. It’s not your fault though, not many people truly understand what forgiveness is and how it works. We talk about forgiveness a lot, but actually practicing it is a different story.
Think about it, where would you have learned about forgiveness? If your only exposure to forgiveness was through movies, then you’ve been misled. If you learned about forgiveness from your local church, chances are they only touched the surface of the topic. And if you learned about forgiveness from your family, maybe you picked up a thing or two.
One reason why forgiveness often falls short is because it can be heart-wrenching. It requires you to get closer to the person you’re forgiving, forcing you to grow whether you like it or not. But here’s the thing, if your forgiveness doesn’t change you or provide any insight, then you’re probably engaging in shallow forgiveness. Shallow forgiveness has its place, but not when it comes to serious issues like affairs.
That’s where the video “Forgiveness: Stop the Pain, Tear down the Walls and Remove the Roadblocks” comes in. It will guide you step by step through the process of forgiveness. You’ll also learn when forgiveness is necessary and when repentance is needed, as well as understanding the difference between the two. Plus, there are signs to look for that will help you distinguish between genuine remorse and just going through the motions. These things are all within your grasp. Forgiveness doesn’t have to be a guessing game anymore.
Let’s keep it real and tackle forgiveness together.
Jeff
