Category: Rebuilding marriage relationship after the affair
Know your limitations
Rather than wait until an affair happens, it is important that you define what behaviors and attitudes that you will not accept in your spouse. You need to define
Jealousy after the affair
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Bringing Back the Connection
If there’s one thing gets lost with an affair—that is the connection between you and your partner. The connection that says you love each other as husband and wife.
Bringing Healing to Your Heart
One of the difficult things to overcome after an affair is the thought that your partner may be doing it all over again. After you been betrayed, the scar
What is in your BEST interest?
A popular credit card company uses the catch phrase question, “What is in your wallet?”. The campaign using the phrase has been catchy to say the least. When an
Learning about feelings
The recovery community is very familiar with the words of Father Martin. One of his quotes that is very insightful is “Feelings are what we have the most of,
Dealing with personal needs and wants
When you are working through the damage of an affair, one of the issues that eventually needs to be dealt with is that of dealing with personal needs and
Disloyalty versus Pathology
One hallmark of healthy relationships and families is a sense of loyalty. Loyalty is fine when it is voluntarily given, yet becomes unhealthy or dysfunctional when it is forced.
Your not remembering it right
After affairs are out in the open, many issues are finally brought out into the open. One ploy used by adulterers is to plant seeds of doubt. While they
Making choices based on pain
The emotional pain associated with affairs makes them more challenging than they need be often, the pain of what we tell ourselves about the affair is more painful than
