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There is nothing wrong with being jealous. After all, marriage is founded on an exclusive partnership between you and your spouse. When your spouse shows interest and actively pursues another person, jealousy is a natural reaction to this violation of the trust in your exclusive partnership.
In spite of jealousy, however, affairs can and still do happen. They are disasters to your family, which if left unchecked could ruin your marriage and your family altogether.Just because there are no arguments does not mean things are settled. The issues leading up to the affair need to be addressed. Addressing these issues requires a strong love and determination for both of you to work it out.
After the affair, however, you will have to deal with jealousy. At the back of your mind, you might be asking whether or not your spouse is still seeing someone else. You might also be wondering if you have 100% of his or her affection and love.
There are two ways to deal with jealousy after the affair. One, you have to strengthen your own security in your own worth and analyze where your jealousy is coming from. Perhaps you are still harboring some bitterness over the affair. Although it takes some time for that to heal, you should consciously choose to forgive if your partner has truly changed.
You should also talk with your partner about your jealousy, especially if he or she is indeed showing some reasons for you to be jealous. When you do so, you can agree on how to ease your feelings of jealousy.
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