Is your spouse ‘at risk’?

If you knew when a thief was going to break into your home, you would be prepared for them. If you knew when a lover was going to break into your marriage and steal affections that do not rightfully belong to them, you would also take precautions,…or would you? Is your spouse at risk and you don’t even know it?

There are some behaviors and signs to look for that would indicate a ‘high risk’ situation.

1. Does your spouse travel a great deal?
2. Does your spouse keep odd hours on their job?
3. Does your spouse handle large sums of money?
4. Does your spouse entertain people as part of their job?
5. Does your spouse tend to be secretive about their phone?
6. Does your spouse have a separate company charge account that you never see?
7. Does your spouse’s workmates cover for them?
8. Does your spouse place an emphasis on physical fitness/attractiveness all the time?
9. Does your spouse receive and make calls at odd hours?
10. Does your spouse spend a great deal of time playing golf?

These are just some of the high risk signs. If your spouse has one or two, it is not time to panic. If they have several of them, you may want to make sure that your relationship and communication are in good shape. These are not sure fire signs, just the signs that they are in a risky situation that is often found in connection with cheating.

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Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah