Category: Reducing the Risk
The Hidden Affair Patterns
As a counselor, I’ve mastered the art of decoding messages and unraveling hidden meanings. By examining patterns in writing, and speaking I can navigate the deep waters of your
The Affair playing field isn’t level
The world of infidelity is not a level playing field. Some people are more at risk than others for having an affair, and some affairs cause greater damage to
Trashy Friends
Hank Williams Junior sings songs about rowdy friends and trashy women. I think he mislabeled things. He should have sung about trashy friends and rowdy women. Had he sung
The Super villain of the Exploiter
In some of my previous emails, I talked about some of the affair villains. Like the superheroes of pop culture, there are supervillains of relationships. Today I want to
“What about forced Affairs?”
As much as I despise people being forced into affairs, it happens. Although it’s easy blaming the cheater for affairs, when facing forced affairs, the rules change. What changes
The Risk of Affairs at Work
Although I found statistics classes boring at times when I took them, as the years go by, my feelings are a love-hate type. I love statistics when they shed
The danger of poachers
My sons make it a point of knowing the various hunting seasons here. They not only know when deer season begins, but they also keep track of turkey season,
John Bradshaw and Affair Relapse
In a conversation with a colleague, John Bradshaw’s name came up. I recalled attending his last public presentation. At that time John was physically frail and was wheelchair-bound. Those
The Danger of High School Reunions
When photos of my 40th high school reunion were posted online six years ago, I looked at them and pondered whether I made a mistake in not attending it.
The risk that comes with business trips
Although it has been a while since my last business trip, it made an impression. At my hotel was a massive gathering of teenage girls. They lined the halls
