Category: Reducing the Risk
Letting Go of Control
Letting go of triggers and obsessions related to the affair requires some skill. It takes work to identify the internal and external triggers. It requires paying attention to what
Addicted to Snooping
Are you a snooper? I’m not talking about occasional or episodic snooping. I’m talking about a serious daily need to snoop on your spouse. Or maybe you’re a snoopee
Jezebels and Bedroom Eyes
The millennial youth miss out on the significance of when a new flame gives you a picture of them. This may also explain the allure of Snapchat. You can
The Danger of Poachers
My sons make it a point of knowing the various hunting seasons here. They not only know when deer season begins, but they also keep track of turkey season,
What happens when parents cheat?
In the early part of January, I came across a story that you will find interesting. It concerned the finding that when parents cheat, there is a greater likelihood
Counting the cost of reconciliation
After writing to you about break-ups, it sounded logical to address reconciliation today. Although reconciliation is mentioned by many ‘affair recovery specialists’, it’s important to clarify what reconciliation is,
The Therapist and the Seductress
There’s a great deal you learn about people at a dinner party. There’s the pre-dinner socializing cocktail conversations followed by the dinner conversations. Each requires a different set of
Lynn’s Story
You’ve probably heard the saying “Let sleeping dogs lie”, and when it comes to affair relationships, it’s absolutely true. Those old dormant relationships are best left alone. Let me
Ideas and Your Marriage
Are you tired of being influenced by bad ideas that lead to unintended consequences in your marriage? It’s time to take control and make a positive change. In
Holding onto your principles
As a father, I cherish the time I spend talking with my sons. We discuss their achievements, challenges, and setbacks, providing a valuable perspective on life. However, a recent
