When couples face the issue of an affair, they often have to address the question of “What is your marriage worth?” They answer this question in the amount of time and money spent addressing the issue. Some people only spend enough to ease their conscience, and not enough to improve the relationship.
When asked the question directly, couples often confess that they will do “whatever it takes” to save their marriage, but then balk on the cost of counseling of books that could help. They complain about having to go to meetings or church meetings that will improve their marriage. It seems that the confessions about what their marriage is worth are stated until they are stretched beyond their comfort zone.
If you are in pain, consider, “What is your marriage worth?” . For the cost of my e-book, you can take advantage of 20+ years of experience in learning what works and what doesn’t work rather than have to learn it through trial and error. You can learn how to talk to adulterer and what to avoid asking.
Issues that could end up costing you dearly in a divorce court could be avoided by doing something about the situation now.
Now is when you find out what your marriage is truly worth to you in terms of what you are willing to do in order to save it. Yes, it takes time to read. It does take time to improve your marriage. Do you want to take lucky shots at what might improve it or do you want to know what areas you need to talk about in order to save it?
Is your marriage worth the investment in time and money?
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
