I am not sure whether it is the entrepreneurial mindset, creativity or wickedness that develops the many creative ways to enter infidelity all under the auspices of adding spice to your life. I discovered a whole website dating service that caters to married people for affairs. The site will remain nameless. In perusing the testimonials, a common theme for people who jump into affairs is that they want some spice in their love life. What they don’t tell you is that this kind of spice is more expensive than people can afford.
Another common occurrence was the corrupting influence of evil friends. In many cases, it was the corrupting influence of worldly friends that led to an affair developing.
Among other observations was that secretiveness was a big issue. Spouses often had secret charge cards or secret bank accounts where they had the funds needed for the site. After the account was paid for, they used secret emails (often hotmail) for their address. Once they posted a profile on the site, they had profiles and literally developed another ‘wild’ lifestyle that began with the secret hoarding of money.
I do not advocate such sites, although there are many lessons to be learned from how people are led astray. If a person can learn what to look for before an affair happens, it can save untold thousands and untold heartaches.
So, some of the warning signs:
1. Secret charge card
3. Secret email account
4. Password protected email account
5. Password protected cell phone
6. Corrupting friends.
This will give you a start concerning danger signs that there is too much of the wrong kind of spice in your marriage.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey
