Have you ever considered what it is about affairs that makes them so painful? If the affair was purely a physical act, like shaking hands then overcoming them would not be so problematic. Part of what makes them painful is the loss of security, trust and breach of sacred promise that adds to the difficulty in overcoming this ‘behavior’. Coitus is more than a physical act. Sexual activity involves ‘bonding’ on many levels. The violations of such bonding leaves deep emotional scarring on the parties involved. Like all scars, there is pain associated with the wounding along with the healing process. This will help you develop a better understanding of the pain associated with affairs.
Best Regards,
J. Murrah
