One of the ironies of history that has always struck me concerns Moses and the Golden Calf. Who would have thought that a calf posed a major danger to the people?
Juvenile cows have an inherent cuteness to them. In some ways, they are akin to big puppies or kittens in terms of their adorability.
Despite the cuteness, the calf was a threat. It was not an innocuous object. It’s cuteness disguised the danger behind it.
In a similar way, the current fad of furries may likewise pose a threat to your marriage. On the surface, furries look like adults who are ‘just into cosplay’.
While getting caught up in the cosplay, and hidden behind an alter identity, many of those involved indulge their sexual fantasies. The furry community is often highly sexualized.
When your spouse starts wanting to attend furry conventions, it should concern you. What they appear to be on the surface hides the danger lurking behind masked alter identities (also known as thier fursona). Their sexual activity is known as ‘yiffing’, based on sounds made by foxes.
Not all furries are into sexual activity. Even though not all of them are, the danger remains. Besides the potential threat of costumed yiffing, there is also a growing market for furry porn. Even though your spouse may not be into acting out as a furry, they may be indulging in furry porn.
A survey of attendees at a furry convention found that 78-93 percent of those attending viewed furry porn. So even though they may not be swinging of going to wild sex parties, a sizable number are into furry porn.
If your spouse is into furries, they may have a very active fantasy life filled with furries rather than you.
I decided addressing this issue, since some spouses hide their affairs. If you have spouse who’s into furries, it’s worth digging deeper into what they are doing and viewing. Like the golden calf, the furries pose a threat that you may not see the danger of.
If you discover a hidden furry threat, the time for taking action is now. There’s a danger in front of you that you may not see the full scope of.
In the video, “Handling the Affair Crisis”, I guide you through the initial shock and concerns that come with such painful discoveries. Rather than freaking out, you can instead know what to start doing in order to start making necessary changes.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
