It often seems that people are interested in religion and spirituality AFTER and affair occurs. At that point, they want the comfort and solace associated with religion and spirituality. It is as that time, they want their cake and wish to eat it as well. They want the comfort, but not the responsibilities that go with the spirituality. It is as if they want to divorce the responsibility piece from the comfort peace. Spirituality and Religion have the comfort and responsibility intertwined. In order to achieve the full benefit of the comfort, one needs to assume the responsibility required.
If you are in the process of recovering, remember that the comfort carries with it responsibilities. When this is accepted, the changes and comfort it brings with it can help you cope with the cheating/affair and its aftermath.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
