If the advertising media are to be believed, anyone with big boobs or being well-endowed will insure happiness and pleasure throughout their days. The fantasy is that once these bodily changes are made that your life will improve. Such fantasies are unsubstantiated. The advertising fuels dissatisfaction with one’s body, and questions about one’s own body image and those of their spouse.
In order to reduce the danger of affairs it is important to realize that these ads are fueled by fantasies and that those fantasies are unrealistic. The whole presupposition is based on on a ‘sex is the most important thing in life’ mentality. When we are sad or lonely, it is easy to fall prey to such thinking. Recognize that such thinking is dangerous to your mental health and to your marriage. Rather than seeking after the big boobs or big bulge that others have, the better course is to take the time, money and attention that were spent on such matters and redirect it to your marriage. Work at improving the relationship with your wife or husband. The largest sex organ is the brain and learning to point it in the right direction will do you more good than in the enhancement of other appendages.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey D. Murrah
